15 Rules To Start A Married life

Marriage is a new beginning to a life-long relationship, so it stands to a reason that you might want to have a good start in this new adventure. I listed down some of the do’s and don’ts by a newlywed couple.

1. You always say hello and goodbye affectionately, with a kiss, taking your partner in your arms. This maintains your emotional connection.

2. Take a moment to tell him/her about your day: Even if you are tired and you just want to relax on the sofa, it is the least of things you should do.

3. Spending time together: This is not just at home after work. Book surprises for your darling from time to time and find yourself outdoors for a weekend getaway, a new activity as a wine tasting or a boat ride, or visiting a simple restaurant in town can keep the flame in your matrimony.

4. Make your decisions together: It is important that your partner has a say in general in the decisions you make, planning your free time or your next vacation!

5. Your support: Be present, attentive and give good advice when your partner is confused or on problems that may affect your family life or work.

6. Set limits to your family and in-laws: This is to not let yourself be overwhelmed if they tend to get involved in irrelevant things and have the final say in decisions that affect you.

7. Compliment on how he or she is dressed, style, on his good humor and his unfailing serenity. Do this frequently with no drama and naturally.

8. Communicate as soon as something has upset you, disappointed. Do not keep everything inside until it becomes a mountain in you! You can settle your disagreements calmly finding solutions that address both your needs when you communicate.

9. Spending time for yourself: Continue to carry out activities specific to you and your friends to go out with separately. After all you don’t want to forget your old friends.

10. Trust her: Have your partner privacy in his/her life.

11. Control your Envy: Reading her diary secretly by rummaging through her drawers or checking your partner mails should be strictly avoided. This has a chance to break your marital relationship too.

12. Divide the housework: Cleaning the dishes, shopping, laundry and kitchen, daily or weekly tasks, the important thing is that everyone takes part in a balanced way.

13. Rhythm in Matrimony: There is nothing like to nicely organize all the activities and plan much better after "matrimony".

14. Take care of yourself: Usually couples put overweight after the marriage, take care of yourself! Get active, have a balanced diet and workout.

15. Love your partner: This is the most important thing. Love your partner. See good things and leave out bad things. After all no one is perfect. Understand, love and get rid of boredom in your marital life. 

You would have found your partner on a Balija matrimony site or balijamatrimony.com or through an arranged marriage. However you found your soulmate, it is important that you love and maintain a trusted relationship with your life partner.